10 tips on being an Older Sister

Being a older sister has shaped me into who I am.

1. Set a good example– When it comes to having younger siblings its important to keep in mind that they constantly are looking up to you. Whatever you do, expect your sister to want to follow, so make sure you are always making the right choices. I try to set a good example for my sisters by doing well in school, having a healthy eating schedule, and staying organized.
2. Share- When you have siblings it is important that you share. I understand my parents work very hard to maintain my younger siblings so anytime I can pass down old clothes, or anything valuable of mine I always do.
3. Guide- Being an older sister can be tough because its important to guide your sisters in the right direction. Sometimes it sucks being the “mean” one, but if you feel a loved one is falling off track, especially a younger sibling its important to guide them and it some cases constructive criticism.
4. Support– Although sisters look up to you they also have a mind of their own of course. Its important to support your siblings in decisions that they make. Of course look out for their best interest, but always provide love and support.
5. Be confidante- Show your sisters that they have a shoulder to cry on. Its important to act strong to your younger ones, for they always are looking up to you. Be someone they can come to with problems. You are their partner in crime.
6. Talk through any issues– Fights are bound to happen, its only normal. Give your sisters the chance to say their concerns, and listen to them.
7. Compromise- If you both want the same shirt, let it go. You can borrow, you can share. It is always better to compromise.
8. Encourage them- If you sisters are feeling down, cheer them up. You are their light. They may not come to you when they are down, but your love is always wanted.
9. Surprise them- Surprising them with gifts on their birthdays or holidays will show them how much you care for them.
10. Say I love You– Remind your sisters everyday how much you care for them. Tell your sisters you love them. If you find the words “I love You” strong or uncomfortable then show them. Actions speak louder than words.